Are you tired of reading articles with yet another list of advice to follow?
Is it me, or does every publication we pick up during this New Year’s season include an article from a well-intentioned author who tells you what “to-do’s” you need to make you skinnier, smarter, kinder, or wealthier—or all four?! There are seemingly endless articles supporting what everyone should or should not be doing.
My question is, does one size (list) really fit all?
My answer is NO.
The most successful people I’ve met set their own direction rather than following someone else’s, and they have a personalized compass to guide them. This compass integrates simple, individualized choices in five areas and can enable anyone to set a course that fits their unique makeup.
And the best news is that not only can this amazing tool help you be more successful, but it’s also totally FREE. Grab it here. It will take you four to five minutes to create your very own compass.
With your own compass, you’ll be able to make choices that suite you and easily build the energy, confidence, clarity, influence, and impact you need to reach your goals.
Now to be fair, all these lists are simply trying to be helpful. And some articles set themselves apart. One of my favorites this season came from New York Times writer Susan Shain who offers research-based tips to reach whatever goals fit—again, for you.
Among other tips, Susan advocates for each of us to:
- Think big: pick a personally compelling overarching intention rather than a particular habit.
- Be patient: give yourself time to really figure out the cues and rewards that drive your behaviors.
- Embrace the right rewards – if you can’t feel an immediate, intrinsic reward (energy, pride) you may need to rethink the habit.
- Prime your environment – find a group where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.
- Plan to fail – have a personalized recovery plan.
- Celebrate often – celebrate your way, every day.
Key lessons: one size never fits all, but you can always set your own direction with a simple compass. Use it!